What is love

What real love can do

什么才是真正的爱情
这东西困扰了我很久!眼看青春一点点的消逝
转眼都是要自己工作地人了!
还是单身一个人!
遇到的人是不少!
可终夜没有个结局
错在我懂爱不懂得说!
错在我不善表达把爱藏在心中
当爱情真的来敲门的时候我犹豫了!
我不知道现在的我能给她什么!
或者我不懂爱
俩个人 需要用什么去 维持彼此间的感情呢!
如果我是个穷人!是不是意味着!她会受苦
如果!我给你了她什么!她会爱我吗!

告诉我两个人之间 需要什么才可以彼此快乐!

我不喜欢 昙花一线的爱情! 愿你们幸福
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匿名用户 1级
2009-05-31 回答
   或许每个人想的不一样吧,对于我来说,我想要的是近水楼台的爱情,就像《娜娜》里放的一样。在我的映像中任何恋人都经不起时间与距离的考验,但是看《娜娜》时,娜娜与莲分开了很久却发现彼此依然爱的那么深,我想这就是爱吧。你说你给不了她想要的,那你知道她想要什么吗?爱情不是用来施舍的,当你把她推给别人时你知道她在想什么吗?是失望是痛苦,或许我的想法有点天真,但是任何女的只是想要个爱自己的男人,不论过的如何,至少你不曾放开她。总有人问我如果我喜欢的人喜欢别人了我会怎样?我想说心不在了我努力也没用,假如他依然爱我,我会努力的。爱情是自私的,爱情里只有两个人不是几个人,也许你的爱很霸道,很温柔,没有关系,总会找到喜欢你这种爱的人的。有时候爱情是一种习惯,习惯了他(她)的陪伴,不是吗?不知道怎么说了,等你遇到了你很想跟她在一起的人就是了
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妞妞 4级
2009-05-28 回答
人真实的感情。
2009-05-28 回答
It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some love is friendship set on fire? For others maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it? No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt
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写什么英语啊
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其实我们都在确定什么是爱,爱是怎样产生的,尤其是男女之间的爱情又那样朦朦胧胧。而这些问题在我们伟大的华夏族祖先造这个字的时候已经解释了清楚。在说文解字当中繁体的“爱”是由“爪”“秃宝干儿”“友”组成。要想明白“爱”的本意就要从“友”说起。通说的“朋友”中的“朋”和“友”是两个意思:“朋”是在一起的人,而“友”是志同道合的人,合起来就是志同道合的在一起的人,这就是朋友了。“爱”的上面还有“爪”,和秃宝干儿,“心”,三个部分,合起来的意思就是抓住心。抓住谁的心?这时“友”字就说明了这个人。因此整个“爱”的意思就是:抓住具有志同道合人(男性或女性)的心。   爱是一种发自于生物内心的情感。通常多见于人或动物。著名诗人,学者申宝峰先生曾经在<<爱海情天>>中写道“爱若天高似海深,情如地厚比水纯.。沧海桑田常变化,唯有真情永长存。”把爱比喻成了天和海,说明爱是世上最伟大最永恒的东西。爱可以是与生俱来的,所以可以认为是人性的特质,换言之,爱是作为人必须具备的本质之一。虽然世界各民族间的文化差异使得一个普世的爱的定义难以道明,但并非不可能成立(沙皮亚-沃尔福假设)。爱可以包括灵魂或心灵上的爱、对法律与组织的爱、对自己的爱、对食物的爱、对金钱的爱、对学习的爱、对权力的爱、对名誉的爱、对他人的爱,数之不尽。不同人对其所接受的爱有着不同的重视程度。爱本质上为一个抽象概念,可以体验但却难以言语。   爱也可以后天培养,通过教育,培养人们爱的情结,教育我们的后代,爱祖国,爱人民。
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匿名用户 1级
2009-05-28 回答
什么是爱
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额 你还来问我啊
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嘿嘿 问别人还不如问你自己
宁可~Ink 3级
2009-05-29 回答
Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself), here is a general guide to loving





Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness. 
People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them. 
People who are truly in love are considerate of each others feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores. 
People who are truly in love look out for their mates' best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well. 
People who are truly in love control their anger when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we counting on someone else to meet our needs. 
People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mates' disappointments or failures. 
People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time. 
People who truly love look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope. Which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. 
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爱情是一种奇怪的事。它可能是最令人惊奇的感觉世界,也可以真正伤害,但最后的爱是最,如果不是全部的话,我们将面临。虽然有许多不同的方式来定义的爱和有许多不同的方式爱别人(甚至自己) ,这里是一个总体指导lovingLove不炫耀。人们谁是真正的爱情不要排练其优良性状只是为了炫耀。吹牛的关系往往是真正为自己辩白。人们谁是真正的爱情不坚持认为他们的方法是最好的,并要求其队友屈服于他们。人们谁是真正的爱是体谅对方的感受和礼貌在他们的行动对一个。可悲的讽刺是一种生活方式的一些夫妇。他们嘲笑对方,贬低对方和贸易jibes与愤怒。他们可能会说,这是所有的乐趣,但它留下的伤口,将有一天成为恶化溃疡。人们谁是真正的爱寻找同伴的最佳利益多达自己。那些爱应该关注不仅对自己的个人利益,而是利益的,以及其他。人们谁是真正的爱的控制他们的愤怒时,其他displeases他们。我们都是人,和所有的人感到愤怒,定期,但我们只能表达我们的愤怒,在破坏性的方式,当我们指望别人来满足我们的需要。谁真正热爱人民彼此不愉快的队友,失望或失败。人谁真正彼此相爱对待他们的队友绝对信任。一些丈夫和妻子折磨自己无端猜疑。如果你看看麻烦你会发现,每一次。谁真正热爱人民期待着他们的关系变得更加有意义和珍贵。他们的希望。这是一个态度,愉快的良好预期。
Lur· 8级
2009-05-29 回答
你爱的,能让你得到真正的快乐的,就是爱。